When you hear the word “dildo,” most people picture a toy shaped to resemble an erect penis. And while that’s often true, dildos have evolved far beyond their classic phallic form. Today, you’ll find dildos in all sorts of shapes, sizes, and even colours—some realistic, some artistic, and some that definitely don’t look like anything in human anatomy (yes, tentacle dildos exist, and yes, people love them).

At its core, a dildo is a penetrative toy. It’s designed to be used vaginally or anally, offering the feeling of fullness and stimulation. Unlike vibrators, dildos don’t always come with motors—though you can absolutely find vibrating versions if that’s your preference.

Materials are one of the biggest differences between dildos. Common options include:

• Silicone (body-safe, smooth, and flexible).
• Glass (luxurious, durable, and perfect for temperature play).
• Metal (heavy, sleek, and ultra-firm).
• Jelly rubber or plastic (less common these days as buyers lean toward higher-quality, non-toxic options).

Some dildos are ultra-realistic, with veins, heads, and textures designed to mimic the real thing. Others are artistic and non-phallic—think swirled glass sculptures that double as coffee table art (well, if you’re bold enough).

There are also double-ended dildos (for partnered play), strap-on compatible dildos, and even eco-conscious designs like ours at The Natural Love Company, where sustainability meets pleasure.

If you’re comparing options, it’s worth checking out our guide on What Is a Vibrator? as well as What’s the Difference Between a Dildo and a Vibrator?—because while they overlap, they each bring something unique to the bedroom.