Foreplay is a fun and easy way to build a connection with your partner. Doing anything remotely sexual can help to lubricate the vagina ready for sex and for men it can help them to extend their pleasure. Foreplay can happen in many different ways and can be easily done.
It starts from your alarm…
Foreplay can start from the first moment you wake up with your partner. Even a simple compliment before they leave for work can kick it off. Whilst you’re at work send your partner a risky text to let them know that you are thinking of them. Making your partner feel seen is a great way to get them excited to get home into the sheets with you.
Take your time…
What’s the rush? Take your time with your partner. Pay attention to all of your partners’ features and show them appreciation. Whatever feels good for them.
Talk dirty…
Get as explicit as you and your partner feel comfortable with. Compliment your partner and tell them what you love about them. A small compliment can go a long way especially in the bedroom. Tell them how you are feeling or what you want them to do as they can’t always read your mind!
Gestures…
Foreplay doesn’t always have to be sexual acts. It can also be small gestures to your partner as well. For example cooking your partner dinner or doing a load of washing that you knew they had to do when they got in from work. Showing up to make your partner’s life a little easier for them. Kindness and consideration is sexy too!
Experiment with texture play…
Did you see last week’s post about ice play? Go take a look…
Slow it down…
Sex doesn’t need to be rushed. Try to slow it down to enjoy the moment and take time with your partner. This will help you build a much deeper connection. Try and give each other a massage before diving straight in or like we said, get the ice cubes out!
Work out what’s been stressing you out…
Everyday life stresses getting to you can affect your drive. Have a think and work out what has been getting to you recently and try and think about how you can eradicate this from your life as nothing is worth getting in the way of the bedroom!
