Or perhaps you have some ideas but you’d just like a little extra guidance. Either way, you’ve come to the right place!

We’ve got advice and tips galore to enable you to have a personalised, thoughtful, fun and tasteful approach to giving sex toys as gifts! No matter the occasion nor who you’re gifting to, we’ve got everything you could ever wish to know packed into this handy little guide.

Why Give a Sex Toy as a Gift?

Sex toys make incredible gifts for countless reasons. Giving a sex toy as a gift can be a thoughtful and meaningful way to enhance intimacy, promote self-care, and encourage sexual exploration. For intimate partners, a gift like this can add a new layer of excitement and connection, fostering shared experiences and deepening the relationship. For friends, even a small toy can offer a playful, supportive, and fun way to explore personal pleasure!

Sex toys are a unique gift that can be empowering to receive, helping recipients embrace their sexuality, body confidence, and well-being. Gifting a sex toy shows thoughtfulness by considering the recipient’s desires and comfort while offering them a chance to discover new aspects of themselves or their relationship. A well-chosen toy is like the gift that keeps on giving, bringing ongoing joy, novelty and, best of all, orgasms!

Things to Think About:

Who Are You Gifting to and What Would They Like?

First step, and perhaps obvious, is to think about who you’re gifting to. This can be important for a whole bunch of reasons. You want to think about their interests, personality type, experience level and boundaries, as well as your relationship.

For example, let’s say you’re gifting a beginner. You’re not going to want to gift wrap a 10-inch extra-girthy dildo, right? A lovely beginner-friendly simple, demure, and cutesy bullet vibrator would be a much better choice. If you’re buying for a long-term partner, you may have a better idea of what they might specifically enjoy, but they’re likely to be interested in toys designed for shared intimacy, like remote-controlled vibes or a couples hamper. And if you’re gifting someone who is a little more adventurous, they may appreciate something more unique, like a glass dildo or a multi-functional toy!

Everybody is different and thinking about the person or people you’re buying for will really help you decide what they’d enjoy receiving the most!

Are Sex Toys an Appropriate Gift for This Person/These People?

Before diving head first into gift selection, consider whether a sex toy is the right fit for your recipient. Some people may welcome an intimate gift (us), while others may feel it’s too personal. This may depend on your relationship, their comfort level, and the context. Ask yourself a few questions:

• Have you discussed sexual wellness or intimacy with this person? If the topic has come up naturally and they show signs of being comfortable discussing these subjects with you, they may be open to receiving a sex toy as a gift!
• What’s your relationship to the recipient? For example, if the gift is for your sexual partner, then you’re probably good to go! If the gift is for a colleague, boss or employee, then maybe think twice and consider whether it’s appropriate.
• Does this gift align with your relationship? Intimate gifts work well in close, trusting relationships where everyone involved is likely to feel comfortable. If you’re gifting to a couple, but maybe you only have a close relationship with one half of that couple, then perhaps it’s not appropriate to gift to them as a couple.

Taking a moment to think through can ensure your gift feels appropriate and thoughtful, and will help you make the best choice for a positive experience. Which is what we want!

Where to Buy From

“But where to buy from?” you cry.

As a sex toy company, we’ll try not to be too biased here, but then again…

If you’re taking the time and effort to choose a gift for a loved one, we’d assume you’d want the product to be high quality, packaged nicely, and feel special. At The Natural Love Company, we specialise in eco-luxury sex toys and accessories. Our products are aesthetically pleasing, the highest of quality, and crafted from sustainable materials with eco-friendly practices. Each of our toys comes packaged in a gorgeous branded cotton drawstring pouch, for ultimate presentation. A thoughtful company for a thoughtful gift!

There are other retailers available, and perhaps TNLC isn’t what you’re looking for, but we’d certainly recommend taking a look through our website!

Types of Sex Toys and Who They Might Be Good For

Dildos

A classic! Can be enjoyed by pretty much anybody who enjoys penetration. Usually used more for masturbation, but can also be used by couples who enjoy additional toys during intercourse! Great gifts for hen parties, but also an excellent choice for someone new to sex toys.

Bullet Vibrators

Bullets are our top recommendation for a clit-stimulating beginner’s toy. If the person you’re buying for is new to the world of sex toys, bullet vibes are small and unintimidating, while still packing a pleasurable punch! Bullet vibrators are also a solid candidate if the person you’re buying for lives with people as they’re compact and discreet! Also great for travel lovers for the same reason!

Love Eggs and Other Remote-Controlled Toys

The perfect choice if you’re buying for a couple! These kinds of toys, such as Cistus and Nepeta, are excellent for power play and, if you’re daring enough, a discreet way to dabble in public play. Note: They’re usually intended to be inserted vaginally, so it’s important that at least one half of the couple can enjoy vaginal stimulation.

Cock Rings

If there are any men or people with penises in your life who are looking to enhance their erections while simultaneously prolonging and intensifying pleasure, then this is a great call. Cock rings are another couple’s favourite too, with many featuring vibration and a clitoral-stimulating component to them, like Cilantro, Medlar, and Boronia.

Rabbit Vibrators

A top choice if the person you’re buying for is a self-love connoisseur! Rabbit vibes provide dual stimulation, targeting both the clit and the G-spot. These are ideal for someone who’s a little more experienced with sex toys and enjoys a good masturbation session. These toys are also a good shout if you’re looking for something a little more lighthearted, as the clitoral element is shaped like a bunny rabbit, hence the name!

Masturbation Cups and Strokers

Cupping and vibrating around the penis, masturbation cups like Bergamot are great for the men in your life who might enjoy a little something extra during their solo sessions!

Anal Beads

For someone who’s a little more adventurous and wants to dip their toes into anal play. Also a brilliant gift for seasoned anal enthusiasts or maybe a long-term partner if you want to spice up play sessions with something new. Take a look at Vetiver.

Butt Plugs

Excellent for anal play beginners and enthusiasts alike! Simple yet profound, butt plugs are good for anybody open to a touch of anal play. Sometimes they come with decorative ends, like our jewelled butt plug set, Arnica, and our glass flower petal butt plug, Litsea. Ideal if the person or people you’re buying for enjoy the more aesthetically pleasing things in life.

Wand Vibrators

Versatile and one of our favourites, the classic wand vibrator is the epitome of greatness and pleasure! Large in size, we recommend this for someone who’s a sex toy pro and isn’t worried about being discreet or finding a place to hide it. Wand vibes are not only orgasmic for clitoral stimulation but can also be used for full-body massages and sensation play. However, we wouldn’t recommend these for beginners because, while simple to use, they can be quite intimidating as a first sex toy due to their size and intensity. Although, there are also smaller mini wands available like Cassia and Tulsi.

Clitoral Suction Toys

Clit-sucking toys, like Jasmine and Camphor, are an innovative and newer kind of toy on the market. These toys could be a nice choice for someone who might want to try something new and unfamiliar. They surround the clitoris and use air pressure to provide a unique pulsing sensation over the area. You can’t really go wrong with these toys if the person you’re gifting to has a clit!

Prostate Massager

This one is a prime choice for the adventurous and experimental men in your life. Prostate massagers are large in size and inserted anally for prostate stimulation. The prostate is also known as the male G-spot, by the way! We’d recommend a prostate massager like Havana for anybody with a prostate who has also dabbled in anal play… and enjoyed it. This is another one we perhaps wouldn’t recommend for newbies to sex toys.

Bondage Toys

Bondage is the sexual practice of consensually tying, binding or restraining a partner, making bondage toys a fab pick for couples or individuals wanting to spice things up in the bedroom. Bondage toys range from beginner-friendly options like handcuffs and blindfolds to more advanced items like restraints, gags and whips. Bondage play is great for enhancing trust, exploring fantasies, and adding excitement to a relationship. Does that sound like something your recipient would be interested in?

Our Sex Toy Hampers

Sex toy hampers offer variety, value, and convenience, making them ideal for gift-giving, personal exploration, or expanding an existing collection. Each of our hampers here at TNLC is thoughtfully curated to create a complete experience, with every hamper featuring a full-sized bottle of Simply Toy Cleaner and aloe vera Simply Lube! They allow users to sample multiple types of toys and discover new preferences, all while enjoying a cohesive set designed to work well together. The perfect gift!

P.s. If you’re shopping for the Christmas season, each and every one of our hampers comes packaged with a gorgeous cotton TNLC stocking during the winter months for that festive touch!

Beginners Hamper

Perfect for curious sex toy newbies, this set includes the versatile Cassia (a dual-ended wand and G-spot vibrator), our sleek Tansy G-Curve glass dildo and the discreet Elemi bullet vibe. Each item is chosen with beginners in mind for quality and ease of sexual exploration.

Couples Hamper

Our Couples Hamper is a thoughtfully curated collection designed to enhance intimacy and shared pleasure. This hamper includes our remote-controlled vibrating love egg Nepeta, our clitoral stimulating Cilantro cock ring, the gorgeous Litsea butt plug, our unique Camellia blindfold, and our daring Camellia choker and leash. Together, these items create an experience of exploration and excitement for couples ready to dive deeper into their connection through sex toys.

Oh, F**k It Hamper

This hamper is the ultimate indulgence, designed for those who want a FULL The Natural Love Company experience. No holding back. This extravagant collection of our 15 bestsellers includes everything from powerful rabbit vibrators and sleek butt plugs to discreet bullet vibes and clitoral suction toys. Perfect for the adventurous or indecisive, it offers a complete range of textures, sensations, and styles in high-quality, sustainable designs. The Oh, F**k It Hamper is quite literally the full package and would be a truly unforgettable gift.

The full list of toys the Oh, F**k It Hamper includes:

• Elemi Bullet Vibrator
• Tansy G-Curve
• Vetiver Anal Beads
• Cilantro Rabbit Cock Ring
• Litsea Butt Plug
• Dill G-Curve
• Dill Ribbed
• Dill Straight
• Yarrow Thrusting Rabbit Vibrating Dildo
• Camellia Blindfold
• Camphor Rabbit Style Vibrating Dildo with Clitoral Suction
• Jasmine Clitoral Sucking Vibrator
• Cistus Dual G-Spot & Clitoral Vibrator with Remote
• Nepeta Remote Controlled Love Egg
• Cassia Dual-Ended Wand Vibrator

Bondage Hamper

Our Bondage Hamper offers a selection of elegant and accessible bondage essentials, blending natural aesthetics with the soft feel of synthetic fibres. This beginner-friendly yet versatile set includes a blindfold, handcuffs, flogger, mouth gag, and a 5-meter rope, all from our coveted Kanuka bondage range. This hamper is perfect for those curious about bondage, as well as seasoned practitioners looking to expand their collection.

Dill Hamper

This hamper could also be known as the Dildo Hamper (or perhaps the Dill-do Hamper)! It contains our full range of Dill silicone dildos, plus the compact yet powerful Elemi bullet vibrator which can be used alone but is also designed perfectly to be inserted into the Dill G-Curve and Dill Straight for added vibration – those particular dildos also each have a suction cup base. Each dildo is uniquely designed for varying pleasure. With ergonomic designs and tantalising textures, this set promises a comprehensive and exciting pleasure experience.

Ocean Plastic Hamper

At The Natural Love Company, our commitment to the environment and sustainability drives everything we do, which inspired our Ocean Plastic range. This collection features beautifully designed vibrators with inner components made from recycled ocean plastic, each then adorned in a sanitary-grade silicone exterior. Our aim is to offer exceptional pleasure products that are kind to the planet, helping to reduce plastic waste and protect marine life with every piece.

Our Ocean Plastic Hamper features a wonderful selection of toys (you guessed it!) from our Ocean Plastic range. The selection includes Cassia (our versatile dual-ended wand and G-spot vibrator), our Jasmine clitoral suction vibe, Saro our classic rabbit vibrator, and our small but sweet Elemi bullet. This hamper offers an elaborate yet sustainable pleasure experience, the perfect gift for an eco-conscious friend or partner.

Self Love Hamper

This one celebrates self-care and encourages an indulgent self-love routine. The Self Love Hamper includes everything someone with a vagina could ever possibly need for a masturbation session, aka the ultimate form of self-love! It features the luxurious Saro rabbit vibrator, the compact Elemi bullet vibrator, and the sensational Tulsi body massager. Gift this to someone you believe deserves a little extra self-loving.

Glass Dildo Hamper

For your elegant and sophisticated friends, our Glass Dildo Hamper is absolute perfection. This hamper brings together the best of our glass toy range, including the bestselling 7” Tansy G Curve, the elegant 8” Tansy Beaded and the 6” Tansy Anal. Each of these are so unique and aesthetically pleasing that you could pass them off as ornaments! Take a look if you don’t believe us!

Anal Hamper

Our Anal Hamper is a thoughtfully curated set designed to enhance intimate exploration through anal play, whether solo or with a partner. It features Davana, a remote-controlled prostate massager with both vibration and rotation, silky Vetiver anal beads, and a set of Hyssop suction-based butt plugs. This collection caters to multiple preferences and sensitivities, ideal for anybody who’d like to explore anal fun further.

Essentials Hamper

The Essentials Hamper brings together all the customer favourites in one convenient set. It includes clit sucking Jasmine, our small and mighty Elemi bullet vibrator, and Tansy Beaded, an 8-inch beaded dildo for unmatched sensations. Like we said, it’s the essentials! Who wouldn’t love receiving this as a present???

Sensations Hamper

This one is designed for those who crave intense sensations. If that sounds like the person (or people) you’re buying for, then this would be more than a suitable gift. Our Sensations Hamper includes Angelica (a large and powerful wand vibrator), Camphor (a vibrating shaft dildo with a clitoral suction cup), and Tansy Beaded (an 8-inch glass dildo beaded for a unique sensation and increased pleasure). This hamper is a bold and stimulating choice for those who love stronger, more intense play!

Delight Hamper

This hamper is a beautiful collection of unique and pleasure-packed toys designed to complement each other for ultimate satisfaction. It includes our licking tongue vibrator Myrtle, Ambrette (our ornamental wand vibrator), an Elemi bullet vibe, and a Litsea glass butt plug with a flower petal base. This selection of toys is designed in a way you may never have seen before! Perfect choice for any creatives in your life who appreciate a bit of colour, individuality, and quirkiness.

Build a Bundle

If none of our hampers meet your specific needs and desires, build your own! Choose three or more toys from our wide selection and receive a 35% discount on each toy!

Gifts by Occasion

Choosing the right naughty gift can depend on the occasion. Whether it’s a holiday, an anniversary, or a “just because” moment, here are some ideas to inspire the perfect pick:

Birthdays

For birthdays, think about celebrating the recipient with something they may not buy for themselves! A luxury vibrator, a Sensations Hamper, or even something minimalistic like a discreet bullet vibrator can make a birthday memorable and special.

Anniversaries

This is the perfect time to go for something intimate and shared, whether you’re buying for your own relationship, or if it’s for a couple you love dearly. Consider a couples toy like a remote-controlled love egg, like Nepeta, or a vibrating and clit stimulating cock ring, like Cilantro. Or maybe a Couples Hamper? Pleasure for both parties in one gift!

Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is a time for romance and intimacy, so gifts that set the mood work well. Think of sensual accessories like Simply Massage Oil to inspire some couples massages, or some luxury lube (*cough* Simply Lube *cough*) for some slippery experimentation. This is also a great occasion for a toy that fits your chosen Valentine’s specific desires, whether it’s something from our Kanuka range because they’ve expressed interest in trying some bondage play, or something fun like a vibrating butt plug (Quince) to fulfil their anal fantasies.

Christmas

For Christmas, you could go with just about anything, tailored to the person! Maybe some bondage rope so the recipient can be tied up like a Christmas present, too? Or a fun hamper? At The Natural Love Company, our hampers come with a festive branded Christmas stocking which makes a great finishing touch to a Chrimbo gift! A stocking full of sex toys? Yes please! Just be sure to be discreet and private if you’re opening gifts around family. Not everyone wants to unwrap a sex toy in front of Uncle Nick on Christmas Day.

Stag/Hen Parties (AKA Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties)

For these pre-wedding celebrations, think fun, adventurous, and maybe a bit humorous! Consider bold choices like novelty toys, jewelled butt plugs, or a remote-controlled toy to use with their spouse-to-be! Dildos are always on theme in our experience! The idea here is to keep it lighthearted, fun, and memorable! Rabbit vibes are a good shout, too!

Just Because

Sometimes the best gifts are the ones given unexpectedly! For a “just because” gift, go for versatile or self-care-focused items that feel pampering. Sometimes people just need a bit of T(N)LC. Something like a Self Love Hamper would be perfect. A surprise like this can be a lovely way to show care and appreciation without the need for a special occasion.

Thoughtful Extras to Include

Once you’ve decided on your present, it might be an idea to think about how you can level it up a little! There are some small and simple thoughtful extras you could add alongside your sex toy(s) that will be sure to add a nice touch to the gifting experience!

Lube

Something as simple as a small bottle of high-quality lube, like Simply Lube, could be the cherry on the delicious cake that is your gift!

Simply Lube is a vegan, cruelty-free, and water-based personal lubricant that’s kind on the skin. Formulated with 99.2% organic ingredients, it’s free from glycerin, glycol, parabens, and artificial fragrances. Instead, we use natural extracts for our subtle Aloe Vera and Wild Strawberry scents. It comes in a compostable bottle, so you can enjoy it knowing it’s sustainable and eco-friendly! It’s both toy-safe and condom-compatible, making it super versatile and great for gifting!

Toy Cleaner

Help them maintain and keep their gift clean and safe with a little bottle of toy cleaner! We’d recommend our gentle, toy-safe, and kind-to-the-environment Simply Toy Cleaner, which like our Simply Lube, also comes in a compostable bottle. It has a spray applicator for ease of use and is vegan and cruelty-free, of course!

Massage Oil

What pairs well with sex and sex toys? Massages, duh! Some massage oil would be a wonderfully thoughtful addition to your gift, especially if you’re gifting to a couple.

Our rose geranium and ylang ylang scented (that fusion has relaxing and aphrodisiac qualities, by the way) Simply Massage Oil is organic, vegan, and cruelty-free. And again, it comes in a fully compostable bottle, making it a luxurious and mindful add-on to your gift.

Conclusion: The Perfect Gift Awaits

Gifting a sex toy is more than just giving an object; it’s an opportunity to show thoughtfulness, encourage exploration, and create unforgettable experiences. Whether you’re choosing a playful novelty for a friend, a romantic indulgence for your partner, or a comprehensive hamper to spoil someone special, there’s a perfect option for everyone. With so many choices, thoughtful extras, and guidance from this ultimate gifting guide, you’re well-equipped to select a gift that’s equal parts fun, functional, and meaningful.

Remember, the key to a great gift lies in understanding the recipient’s comfort level, interests, and desires. Keep the occasion in mind, and don’t forget those thoughtful extras to make your gift even more memorable. With options ranging from beginner-friendly toys to luxurious hampers, the perfect gift is waiting to be wrapped and delivered with love (and maybe a bit of mischief).

So, what are you waiting for? Explore your options, select your gift, and prepare to give the ultimate surprise that’ll bring joy, connection, and pleasure for many occasions to come!