Mutual masturbation involves the act of a couple masturbating at the same time. It is a way for you and your partner to form a deeper connection with each other and also find more about what each other likes and dislikes. Masturbation is always viewed as a solo act with so much stigma built around it. It’s time to embrace the pleasure and why not mix it up by getting your partner involved too!
Communication…
Mutual masturbation allows you to show your partner what you like without saying it verbally, which might be more comfortable for some people. Finding out what each other really wants can lead to mind blowing sex sessions…
Spice things up…
Let’s be real, the longer you are together the more you need to make an effort to spice things up. If you are finding your sex life quite boring and mundane at the minute, this might be a great way to reignite that flame between you and your partner. It is an opportunity for you to explore your bodies further. Keeping your relationship alive can be fun as you can try new things!
Using your senses…
Sometimes masturbation and sex isn’t always about reaching that big finish. It is important to tap into those five senses and really experience every sensation you can. Being able to touch our partner can feel quite predictable sometimes. So the idea of not being able to touch each other can feel quite exciting!
Making your partner feel comfortable…
Masturbating can be a private activity for most people. There can be a feeling of embarrassment when it comes to masturbating together as there is the vulnerability of someone watching you. So if it’s the first time you or your partner might be trying it, make them feel as comfortable as you can. Remember this activity is meant to increase intimacy and it’s all about embracing that feeling.
Reducing the stigma around masturbating whilst in a relationship…
Masturbating together can be a great way of realising that there is no harm in taking part in self pleasure when you are in a relationship. Masturbating without your partner doesn’t mean that you don’t want them, it’s about pleasuring yourself as it is a form of self care.
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