Wisteria

Dilator Training Set made from Soft Silicone

£49.95

Next day delivery & free returns

100% discreet and trackable

"Wisteria has helped me reclaim comfortable intimacy"

Included in the 3 for 2, mix & match.

Wisteria

£49.95

Play now, Pay Later. No Fees.

Simply Lube?
You Simply Must.

+

Combo Price = £79.85£72.90

Wisteria will be guiding you through your dilation journey with comfort and ease. Designed with people in mind who experience discomfort during penetrative sex, medical conditions necessitating dilation, first-timer of penetrative sex toys and sex, or those embarking on anal training, Wisteria offers a comprehensive set of five silicone dilators in a calming mauve hue. Crafted with care and consideration from buttery smooth hypoallergenic silicon, Wisteria aims to provide comfort, versatility, and gradual progression, ensuring a positive experience for every user on their journey towards sexual well-being or healing.

So, what is a dilator set, anyway? Dilators are specialised tools designed to gently stretch and expand the vaginal or anal muscles over time. They’re commonly used in various scenarios, including aiding women experiencing pain during penetrative sex, managing medical conditions that require dilation, such as vaginismus or pelvic floor dysfunction, assisting individuals post-surgery who need to gradually increase their penetration capacity, or for those new to penetrative sex or anal play seeking to ease into the experience. In essence, a dilator set like Wisteria offers a structured approach to gradually and comfortably increasing the flexibility and resilience of the pelvic floor muscles, empowering individuals to reclaim control over their sexual health and pleasure.

Wisteria’s design offers a myriad of features tailored to provide comfort, ease, and versatility throughout your dilation journey. Crafted from buttery-smooth silicone, each dilator has an ergonomic shape designed for effortless insertion and optimal comfort during use. With sizes ranging from just 1.3cm (0.5″) in diameter to a generous 3.3cm (1.3″), Wisteria accommodates various levels of dilation, allowing you to progress at your own pace. At the end of each dilator, a convenient ring pull ensures calm and comfortable insertion and removal. The temperature-reactive silicone material adds an extra layer of indulgence, as you can warm each dilator in water to match your body’s natural temperature for a seamless and pleasurable experience. Additionally, Wisteria’s seamless design ensures optimal hygiene and easy cleaning, allowing you to sanitise each dilator effortlessly with TNLC Simply Toy Cleaner after each use, maintaining the highest standards of cleanliness.

Specially formulated for sensitive skin and intimate use, our Simply Lube (available in Aloe Vera or Wild Strawberry) ensures smooth and comfortable insertion of each dilator, minimizing friction and maximizing pleasure. After each session, store your Wisteria dilator set in its included cotton drawstring bag, keeping it clean, discreet, and easily accessible for future use. Committed to sustainability, Wisteria comes packaged in plastic-free packaging, aligning with TNLC’s eco-conscious values. We wish you all the best with your dilation journey.

Wisteria will be guiding you through your dilation journey with comfort and ease. Designed with people in mind who experience discomfort during penetrative sex, medical conditions necessitating dilation, first-timer of penetrative sex toys and sex, or those embarking on anal training, Wisteria offers a comprehensive set of five silicone dilators in a calming mauve hue. Crafted with care and consideration from buttery smooth hypoallergenic silicon, Wisteria aims to provide comfort, versatility, and gradual progression, ensuring a positive experience for every user on their journey towards sexual well-being or healing. Read More

Wisteria will be guiding you through your dilation journey with comfort and ease. Designed with people in mind who experience discomfort during penetrative sex, medical conditions necessitating dilation, first-timer of penetrative sex toys and sex, or those embarking on anal training, Wisteria offers a comprehensive set of five silicone dilators in a calming mauve hue. Crafted with care and consideration from buttery smooth hypoallergenic silicon, Wisteria aims to provide comfort, versatility, and gradual progression, ensuring a positive experience for every user on their journey towards sexual well-being or healing.

So, what is a dilator set, anyway? Dilators are specialised tools designed to gently stretch and expand the vaginal or anal muscles over time. They’re commonly used in various scenarios, including aiding women experiencing pain during penetrative sex, managing medical conditions that require dilation, such as vaginismus or pelvic floor dysfunction, assisting individuals post-surgery who need to gradually increase their penetration capacity, or for those new to penetrative sex or anal play seeking to ease into the experience. In essence, a dilator set like Wisteria offers a structured approach to gradually and comfortably increasing the flexibility and resilience of the pelvic floor muscles, empowering individuals to reclaim control over their sexual health and pleasure.

Wisteria’s design offers a myriad of features tailored to provide comfort, ease, and versatility throughout your dilation journey. Crafted from buttery-smooth silicone, each dilator has an ergonomic shape designed for effortless insertion and optimal comfort during use. With sizes ranging from just 1.3cm (0.5″) in diameter to a generous 3.3cm (1.3″), Wisteria accommodates various levels of dilation, allowing you to progress at your own pace. At the end of each dilator, a convenient ring pull ensures calm and comfortable insertion and removal. The temperature-reactive silicone material adds an extra layer of indulgence, as you can warm each dilator in water to match your body’s natural temperature for a seamless and pleasurable experience. Additionally, Wisteria’s seamless design ensures optimal hygiene and easy cleaning, allowing you to sanitise each dilator effortlessly with TNLC Simply Toy Cleaner after each use, maintaining the highest standards of cleanliness.

Specially formulated for sensitive skin and intimate use, our Simply Lube (available in Aloe Vera or Wild Strawberry) ensures smooth and comfortable insertion of each dilator, minimizing friction and maximizing pleasure. After each session, store your Wisteria dilator set in its included cotton drawstring bag, keeping it clean, discreet, and easily accessible for future use. Committed to sustainability, Wisteria comes packaged in plastic-free packaging, aligning with TNLC’s eco-conscious values. We wish you all the best with your dilation journey.

Less

Wisteria will be guiding you through your dilation journey with comfort and ease. Designed with people in mind who experience discomfort during penetrative sex, medical conditions necessitating… Read More

Wisteria will be guiding you through your dilation journey with comfort and ease. Designed with people in mind who experience discomfort during penetrative sex, medical conditions necessitating dilation, first-timer of penetrative sex toys and sex, or those embarking on anal training, Wisteria offers a comprehensive set of five silicone dilators in a calming mauve hue. Crafted with care and consideration from buttery smooth hypoallergenic silicon, Wisteria aims to provide comfort, versatility, and gradual progression, ensuring a positive experience for every user on their journey towards sexual well-being or healing.

So, what is a dilator set, anyway? Dilators are specialised tools designed to gently stretch and expand the vaginal or anal muscles over time. They’re commonly used in various scenarios, including aiding women experiencing pain during penetrative sex, managing medical conditions that require dilation, such as vaginismus or pelvic floor dysfunction, assisting individuals post-surgery who need to gradually increase their penetration capacity, or for those new to penetrative sex or anal play seeking to ease into the experience. In essence, a dilator set like Wisteria offers a structured approach to gradually and comfortably increasing the flexibility and resilience of the pelvic floor muscles, empowering individuals to reclaim control over their sexual health and pleasure.

Wisteria’s design offers a myriad of features tailored to provide comfort, ease, and versatility throughout your dilation journey. Crafted from buttery-smooth silicone, each dilator has an ergonomic shape designed for effortless insertion and optimal comfort during use. With sizes ranging from just 1.3cm (0.5″) in diameter to a generous 3.3cm (1.3″), Wisteria accommodates various levels of dilation, allowing you to progress at your own pace. At the end of each dilator, a convenient ring pull ensures calm and comfortable insertion and removal. The temperature-reactive silicone material adds an extra layer of indulgence, as you can warm each dilator in water to match your body’s natural temperature for a seamless and pleasurable experience. Additionally, Wisteria’s seamless design ensures optimal hygiene and easy cleaning, allowing you to sanitise each dilator effortlessly with TNLC Simply Toy Cleaner after each use, maintaining the highest standards of cleanliness.

Specially formulated for sensitive skin and intimate use, our Simply Lube (available in Aloe Vera or Wild Strawberry) ensures smooth and comfortable insertion of each dilator, minimizing friction and maximizing pleasure. After each session, store your Wisteria dilator set in its included cotton drawstring bag, keeping it clean, discreet, and easily accessible for future use. Committed to sustainability, Wisteria comes packaged in plastic-free packaging, aligning with TNLC’s eco-conscious values. We wish you all the best with your dilation journey.

Less

Sustainably Minded
Discreet Delivery

+ -

We provide trackable free priority next-day delivery on all orders over £100. Additionally, we offer an express 2-3 day delivery that is free with all orders over £50. You'll find more details on our delivery options here and our free returns policy here. All our packaging is 100% discreet, sustainable and plastic-free.

Simply Lube
Approved

+ -

Wisteria is compatible with our coveted Organic Simply Lubricant and Simply Toy Cleaner, don't forget yours at checkout.

Tree Planted

+ -

For each purchase we’ll plant a tree to say thanks. So far we’ve planted over 50,000!

Bath & Body
Friendly

+ -

Wisteria is meticulously crafted from sanitary-grade materials, which is not only body-safe but also skin-friendly and BPA free.

Click To
See Sizing

+ -

From Smallest to Largest:

Length: 11cm (4.3")
Maximum Diameter: 1.3cm (0.5")
Weight: 15g (0.5 oz)

Length: 12.2cm (4.8")
Maximum Diameter: 2cm (0.8")
Weight: 32g (1.1 oz)

Length: 14cm (5.5")
Maximum Diameter: 2.2cm (0.9")
Weight: 45g (1.6 oz)

Length: 17cm (6.7")
Maximum Diameter: 2.7cm (1")
Weight: 78g (2.8 oz)

Length: 20cm (7.9")
Maximum Diameter: 3.3cm (1.3")
Weight: 136g (4.8 oz)

F**k Yourself. Not the planet.TM

We'll recycle your old toys, for free.

As part of our 'Second Coming recycling scheme, we'll recycle your old sex toys whether or not you originally bought them from us. Simply claim your free postage label and use the mailer box your new products came in.

We plant a tree for every item you purchase.

As part of our 'orgasms for oxygen scheme', we plant a tree for every item purchased. We're currently replenishing devastating deforestation in North West Madagascar, and with your help have planted over 100,000 trees.

We make sex toys from recycled ocean plastic.

Since 2022, all of our best sellers have been made using a recycled ocean plastic internal core, adorned with a buttery smooth sanitary grade silicone covering.

Our ‘Simply’ range of lubricants is certified Vegan.

Every bottle proudly carries certification from The Vegan Society—a guarantee that every ingredient meets the highest vegan and ethical standards. We go even further: while not formally certified, our packaging is also considered with care, using plant-based inks and avoiding animal-derived materials. That means no animal testing (ever), no hidden animal byproducts, and full transparency from formulation to finish. Each lube in the Simply collection is made with high-quality, plant-powered ingredients that are kind to your body and gentle on the planet.

Oh, and also...

Carbon offset delivery.
Totally plastic free packing.
Never tested on animals.
Body safe & skin kind.

Lovely soft silicone. Great range of sizes. Perfect for what I need.

I really like this and they are by far and away the best dilators I’ve used.

The size range is perfect to guide you all way through.

Additional information

Weight 317 g
Dimensions 19 × 14 × 5 cm

From curious to confident

Can I use Wisteria with Simply Lube?

Not only can you – we insist on it! Our skin-kind and organic Simply Lube is the perfect match for Wisteria, enhancing comfort and pleasure while being completely safe for use with all our toys. We’ve crafted our water-based Simply Lube to work seamlessly with our body-safe silicone toys, ensuring a smooth, worry-free experience every time. So go ahead, grab your Simply Lube and enjoy Wisteria to the fullest!

What makes Wisteria eco-friendly?

Ah, let us count the ways! First off, for every Wisteria sold, we plant a tree because, well, Orgasms 4 Oxygen! So not only are you indulging yourself, but you’re also helping to put a little more green back into the world (Check out the TNLC forest HERE).

Next, you won’t find a speck of throwaway plastic in the packaging. Instead, we beautifully package your order using compostable plant-based starch “plastic”, and FSC-certified recycled cardboard.

What’s more, we’re serious about our carbon footprint, too – every delivery is fully offset, meaning you can enjoy your Wisteria with a clear conscience and a smaller carbon shadow.

Last but not least, we’ve built this beauty to last. Unlike those other short-lived “romantic investments,” Wisteria is here for the long haul, crafted to keep you smiling for years without ending up in a landfill.

In short, Wisteria isn’t just about caring for you – it’s about caring for the planet. Eco-friendly pleasure, one oh-so-satisfying step at a time!

How is Wisteria packaged?

The big reveal! First up, your Wisteria arrives in an FSC-certified cardboard mailer box that’s about as indiscreet as it gets—no logos or hints—so your delivery driver will be none the wiser about the pleasure treasure inside.

Inside, you’ll find your Wisteria nestled safely in a hygiene-sealed starch-based plastic bag (no petrochemicals here, thank you very much). This bag keeps things as fresh and clean as a daisy.

And for storage? We’ve tucked your new toy into a soft, organic cotton drawstring bag so it has a cosy, eco-friendly home between uses.

In short, every part of this package was designed to be as gentle on the earth as it is on you!

Is Wisteria body-safe?

Absolutely. We take body safety as seriously as you take pleasure! All our toys are crafted from body-safe, sanitary-grade silicone that’s as trustworthy as it is touchable. Our silicone is BPA-free, latex-free, and phthalate-free, so you can enjoy peace of mind alongside your new favourite toy.

We use high-quality silicone that goes through a platinum curing process. Now, we know “medical grade” and “food grade” silicone are terms thrown around a lot in the industry, often leading to a whirlwind of confusion. We opted to avoid the confusion of “medical grade” or “food grade” labels entirely, but let us assure you that, like all our toys, Wisteria is manufactured according to high standards for purity, stability, and safety. This platinum curing process isn’t just fancy wording – it is what makes the silicone extra durable, hygienic, and entirely safe for intimate use.

Transparency is key, so if you have any more questions or simply want a deeper dive into our materials, feel free to reach out. We’re here to ensure you feel just as comfortable with your purchase as you do using it!

Can I use Wisteria in the bath or shower?

Yes, you can! This means bringing Wisteria for a steamy bath or shower is perfectly safe.

What makes Wisteria better than other Dilators?

Oh, where to start? Wisteria stands out in a sea of options for a few reasons that we’re pretty proud of:

  1. Eco-Friendly Commitment – Unlike many products out there, Wisteria is made with the planet in mind. From our plastic-free packaging to our carbon-offset deliveries, every aspect of Wisteria is designed to minimize environmental impact.
  2. High Quality, Built to Last – We’re all about quality over quantity. Wisteria is crafted to last, with a durable build that can keep pace with you for years. No “use it a few times and toss it” here – this is a long-term relationship.
  3. Aesthetics that Please the Eye – Let’s be honest: half the fun is in the look. Wisteria is a beauty to behold, designed with a clean, modern aesthetic that’s as appealing to display as it is to use.
  4. Amazing Reviews – Don’t just take our word for it. Our customers have spoken, and they love Wisteria as much as we do. From glowing online reviews to the not-so-subtle recommendations from happy buyers, Wisteria has built a following for a reason.
  5. Proudly Small Business – As a small business, we put a lot of heart into every product. When you buy from us, you’re supporting a team that genuinely cares about your experience and the environment, and we’re grateful to every customer who joins us on this journey.
  6. Fast Delivery – We know that once you’ve decided on Wisteria, waiting is the last thing you want. That’s why we prioritize fast delivery so you can start enjoying it as soon as possible.
  7. Mind-Blowing Orgasms – Of course, what really matters is the experience. Wisteria is designed to give you toe-curling, earth-shattering pleasure that you’ll want to relive again and again. It’s pleasure without compromise – exactly how it should be.
Are sex toys healthy?

Absolutely! Sex toys are a wonderful addition to your well-being, bringing a host of health benefits along with pleasure. More orgasms can lead to improved mood, reduced stress, better sleep, and enhanced blood circulation.

Sex toys are not only perfectly healthy but highly encouraged! With TNLC, you can feel confident that every product is crafted from body-safe, high-quality materials, so you can enjoy all the health benefits and pleasure, worry-free. Embrace the joy – it’s good for you!

Will Wisteria be delivered discreetly?

Absolutely. We take discretion seriously, so your Wisteria will arrive in strong and secure yet nondescript outer packaging with no hints of the delightful contents inside. The world is becoming more liberal about sex toy use, and we’re here for it, but it’s not quite at the point where you want to see your delivery driver wielding a dildo.

Is Wisteria suitable for beginners?

Yes, absolutely! We’ve designed our entire range to be approachable and unintimidating, so it’s perfect for beginners. Each toy in our collection is thoughtfully crafted to look as inviting as it feels, making exploration comfortable and enjoyable.

If you’re looking to ease in gently, we suggest starting with toys that deliver a single point of stimulation – a great way to get a feel for things without feeling overwhelmed. Our goal is to create toys anyone can confidently experiment with and enjoy, no matter their experience level. So go ahead and dive in. Wisteria is ready whenever you are!

Will Wisteria come with instructions?

Yes, but in an eco-friendly, paper-free way! We ditched paper instructions ages ago to keep things more sustainable. Instead, you’ll find a QR code inside your mailer box that links to your complete product guide. Not a fan of QR codes? We get it – they’ve had quite the moment since COVID. You can skip the scan and go directly to thenaturallovecompany.com/care for all the guidance you need. Simple, accessible, and paperless – just the way we like it!

Do you ship Wisteria internationally?

You bet we do! We’re pleased to offer international shipping to the UK, Europe, USA, Canada, and Australia. No matter where you are, Wisteria can be on its way to you, bringing eco pleasure without borders. You can find out more about our delivery options here.

Does Wisteria come with a warranty?

Yes, it does! We back Wisteria with our 365-day Satisfaction Promise because we’re committed to creating a joyful shopping experience and, most importantly, ensuring you find delight in our products. With a curated range of toys and liquids, we’ve carefully designed each item to meet its intended purpose, helping reduce returns and waste.

That said, we understand that everyone’s tastes and needs are unique. If you’re not 100% satisfied, just reach out to us, and we’ll work to make it right. While we can’t accept “opened” toys as returns for health and hygiene reasons (where “opened” means the toy has been removed from its semi-transparent, sterile starch bag), you’re still able to inspect the product’s size, feel, and settings without direct contact. If it’s not a perfect fit, we’d be happy to help you find an alternative and issue a store credit.

For full details, please visit our Return Policy page on our website. Rest assured, our toys are guaranteed for performance and enjoyment throughout the entire 365 days of our Satisfaction Promise!

Can I return Wisteria if I don’t get on with it?

We totally understand that sometimes a toy might not be the perfect match, and we’re here to help. With our 365-Day Satisfaction Promise, if you’re not completely happy with Wisteria, just let us know, and we’ll do our best to make it right.

For health and hygiene reasons, we can’t accept “opened” toys as returns, meaning once the toy has been removed from its sterile, semi-transparent starch bag. However, the packaging allows you to inspect the toy’s size, feel, and settings without direct contact, so you can still get a sense of it before deciding.

If you decide Wisteria isn’t the one, reach out to us, and we’d be happy to assist with finding an alternative and issue a store credit. For full details, please check our Return Policy page. Our goal is to make sure you find a toy you truly enjoy!

Can I use Wisteria with my partner?

Absolutely! Any of our toys, including Wisteria, can be a fantastic addition to partnered play – the only limit is your imagination! We’ve intentionally designed our products to feel inviting and approachable, making them easy to introduce into the bedroom. So, whether you’re looking to spice things up or simply add a new layer of fun, Wisteria is ready to join you both on the adventure.

Are you running any current offers on Wisteria?

Yes, we are! Right now, we’re offering a 3-for-2 deal on all sex toys – including Wisteria – but hurry, as this offer ends soon! You pay full price for two toys and get a third completely free, perfect for expanding your collection or even gifting to a friend.

In addition to the 3 for 2 offer, our Offers page has all the latest deals. We love to make your shopping experience as enjoyable as possible!

Can you tell me more about your company's values and mission?

We’re The Natural Love Company (TNLC) an eco-conscious brand born in the rugged beauty of Cornwall, England. Our mission is clear and ambitious: to bring pleasure and environmental responsibility together in harmony. We believe in creating sustainable, luxurious products that celebrate intimacy while caring deeply for our planet.

Here’s what drives us:

Eco-Luxury and Sustainability: Every step of our process is designed with the planet in mind. From using recycled ocean plastic for our bestselling toy cores to wrapping them in body-safe, buttery-smooth silicone, we’re dedicated to crafting products that are as kind to the earth as they are to you. All our packaging is plastic-free and fully recyclable, and each delivery is carbon offset to help reduce environmental impact. Plus, we plant a tree for every item purchased through our Orgasms for Oxygen initiative, which is currently supporting reforestation in Madagascar. This combination of conscious materials, waste reduction, and tree planting lets us infuse sustainability into every part of our business.

Giving Back to the Planet: We’re proud partners in the 1% for the Planet initiative, donating a portion of our revenue each year to critical environmental causes. Through our Second Coming recycling scheme in the UK, we offer free recycling for any old toys – even if they’re not from TNLC – to help reduce waste and support a circular economy in intimate products.

Quality and Aesthetic: We don’t just make products; we create beautifully crafted pieces that feel as good to look at as they do to use. With thoughtful designs and luxurious materials, each product is made to elevate your pleasure and fit effortlessly into your life.

Customer Satisfaction: At TNLC, we’re here for you with our 365-Day Satisfaction Promise and a dedicated, human-centred customer service team. Your journey with us matters from the moment you explore our products to every experience you enjoy thereafter.

Our commitment to intimacy goes beyond products – it’s about connecting with you, our customers, and the earth we all share. Thank you for being part of TNLC’s mission to bring sustainable pleasure to the world!

Can I recycle Wisteria at the end of its life?

Yes, you can! Through our Second Coming recycling scheme, we’re proud to offer UK customers a way to responsibly recycle their well-loved toys when they reach the end of their life.

Here’s how it works:

  1. Make a purchase of any toy from us within the past 12 months.
  2. Contact us with your order number to express interest in the Second Coming scheme.
  3. Arrange a free drop-off or collection – no printing required.
  4. Package up your pre-loved electronic sex toys (from any retailer, as long as they’re made from similar materials, such as silicone or glass) and send them back to us.

We’ll take care of the rest by processing the toys with our recycling partner, breaking them down into reusable parts like metals and plastics. This helps conserve natural resources, reduces landfill waste, and supports eco-friendly practices in the intimacy industry.

Please note: The scheme is only available in the UK and can accept items of a similar size and material to the products we sell. For more details, visit our Recycling page.

Can I contact you with other questions about Wisteria?

Of course! We’re here to help with any questions you might have. Simply drop us a message at satisfaction@thenaturallovecompany.com, and we’ll get back to you as soon as we can, usually within 24 hours. Whether you need more information about Wisteria or just have a general query, we’d love to hear from you

You can also use our simple contact form here.