There’s an all too common misconception that sex toys are reserved for single people and masturbation.

Wrong!

Couples Sex toys can do things that the human hand, tongue and penis cannot. If you or your partner thinks of couples sex toys as competition, know that sex toys are your best friend – not your enemy! Introducing and experimenting with couples sex toys could be your ticket to giving each other lots more orgasms! And more orgasms can only ever be a good thing in our opinion!

Introducing sex toy play with your sexual partners can be extremely exciting and beneficial. Whether you’re in a committed relationship or just want to add some extra fun into casual sex, first things first it’s important to make sure that both or all parties are 100% comfortable and consent to toy play.

There are lots of different ways to use sex toys with a partner, and it can really depend on the experience you’re looking for together.

A fun way to play together is to experiment with power play by using remote controlled couples sex toys. Remote controlled sex toys give you the opportunity to literally put the control into your partners hands or vice versa, so you’d be the one in control of your partner’s pleasure.

We have several remote controlled toys to try. Elemi-R, our remote controlled bullet vibrator, perfect for masturbation without excluding your partner(s), as they would have control of the remote. And then we have Nepeta, a remote controlled vibrating love egg and Cistus, our remote controlled dual G-spot and clitoral vibrator. Nepeta and Cistus are both excellent for discreet public play or maybe some exciting and unpredictable foreplay around the house.

As well as for a bit of extra fun, sex toys can also be extremely useful and beneficial for those who find it hard to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex, which is a common predicament for those with a vulva. A vibrating cock ring is an amazing way to enjoy penetrative sex with your partner(s) and simultaneously reap the benefits of clitoral stimulation (orgasms!). A cock ring also comes with the benefits of restricting blood flow to the penis to produce and maintain a stronger erection for a longer period of time.

If you enjoy a rampant rabbit, Cilantro, our multi-speed rabbit cock ring would be ideal for you as it pairs a classic cock ring with soft vibrating rabbit ears for clitoral play. We also have Boronia, our more simple, slim model, introducing dual pleasure for everybody.

Bondage and BDSM are becoming increasingly popular during couple’s play. BDSM is an abbreviation for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism & Masochism. BDSM is any sexual activity that involves any kind of consensual bondage, domination, submission, control play between partners and giving or receiving pain for pleasure. Bondage is a form of BDSM, the sexual practice of consensually tying, binding or restraining a partner.

If you and your sexual partner(s) fancy dipping a toe into the world of BDSM, Yuzu (our soft, padded blindfold partnered with two satin restraints) would be the perfect pairing to start with. Yuzu invites you to try out a little bit of sensory deprivation by removing eyesight from yourself or your partner(s) to enhance your partners other senses, and also allows you to experiment with bondage by restraint of ankles or wrists. If however, you’re looking for something more simplistic and versatile, Kanuka, our soft length of woven play rope is perfect for bounding your partner(s) in any desired way, from simply tying their wrists together, to learning the intricate and methodical ancient Japanese art and practice of knot tying, known as Shibari.